如果你是快樂而且在戀愛中那是好的。

如果你是困惑而且軟弱，那跟某人在一起是不會有太多幫助的。

軟弱和困惑只會導致更多的困惑。

對自已要有信心，然後你可以愛和快樂。

如果...你不能給自己快樂那要如何給別人快樂？



愛的意義是純然的了解、純然的關心，並不是關於一段軟弱、困惑或執著的關係。



~~~卡盧仁波切



If you are happy and in love it is good.

If you are confused and weak, then being with someone else is not so helpful. Weakness and confusion only leads to more confusion.



Have confidence in yourself. Then you can love and be happy. If you cannot give happiness to yourself how can you give happiness to another?



The meaning of love is pure understanding, pure care, it is not about a weak or confused or attached relationship.



-- Kalu Rinpoche